Friday, July 31, 2009

Working out and banking...

I went to the gym for a workout, showered at the gym (which I detest) and I went to the bank to do some bidness. As I was waiting in line at the bank, I saw a few people from the gym I just left. We nodded appropriately, you know we have to nod because talking would make us almost human, and personal. In keeping with the gym mode, you are never human nor personal. So I did my obligatory nods and I waited for my turn.

The man in front of me had me totally captivated. He was there with his friend and they wanted to transfer money from man #1's account and put it in man #2's account because man #2 bailed him out on some teeth. Seriously I cannot make this up, it's just that real. The nice cashier lady behind the counter restrained from chuckling and said you're a good egg my friend.

As I was motioned to the far window, you could still hear the conversation and everyone else was captivated by the friendship these two guys had. At the end of their transaction, it was determined that they were heading to the meat market to get some chops. I smiled inside and apparently outside too because the gym lady next to me said, well you look happy today...

What just happened ??? She broke the nod rule. I quickly replied, yes I am very happy I am happy to be alive and have the joy of smiling. You could tell she regretted talking to me by the deer in the headlight look and then... out of the blue she said... I am happy too!

Interesting morning...

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Thursday, July 30, 2009

Amazed at society - The Prez' beer party

I will not pretend to understand the motives behind the beer garden party. I am not certain that the police officer was intentionally asked to the White House to apologize. That wasn't what I thought it was suppose to be. My opinion of the showdown is just crazy.

The police officer was trying to do his job. The professor was trying to insert the race card. Plain and simple. General Powell said it best, Professor Gates needs adult supervision.

I hope the beer was cold and the conversation was warm. If not, I hope the beer was warm and the conversation was cold... either way, not top news.

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Tuesday, July 28, 2009

We walked and laughed

Mr. Hairy Chest man and I did our walk today. I didn't want to leave his side. He was so intriguing. I have always enjoyed listening to him, but today it was different. It was a soulful talk. He talked about the things he sees differently. He talked about how we take every single step for granted. Here I was all down in the dumps about my not doing the half marathon; and the life style change not being the way I wanted. Here he says... I am truly glad to be alive and have a wife that still loves me. That is the most important aspect in his life. How emotional.

When they realized he was going to walk again, he and his wife went dancing for the first time. That is what life is about...

Good luck to my friend!

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Doing the walk...

Today is going to be a positive day for a great walk. I am doing a fast walk-semi jog. I am excited. Hairy chest man (one of my walking/jogging buddies) is meeting me at the upper/lower jogging court and we are going to see what we can do. I want to do at least the 5k and he wants to at least do 1 mile. Afterwards I promised him a nice long soak in the hot tub so he could recoup.

Hairy Chest man has an awesome wife that is super supportive. She bought him a hot tub and put a nice fridge outside with a generous supply of healthy snacks. She even has a finish line banner over the tub. He is recuperating from doing a crazy marathon where he blew out everything. Sad part is; this was not his first marathon, he is a frequent runner. Actually I should say was. After this latest incident, he is freaked about even walking. After his incident, he couldn't walk for 48 hours and they didn't know if he would walk again.

So today we will do the walk. That's what we call it and I like it.

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Monday, July 27, 2009

Rainy and not that pleasant

Today is a work day of sorts. I have some business to attend to. Which isn't fitting nicely into my "let's take a break" mode I have been in. Besides, this flu thing is kicking my buttocks.

I have to fly to New York and hopefully that will be postponed until the fall because today it's rainy and I don't want to leave my happy little cave.

Interesting though, maybe I can just call in a "Rain Delay" day... Keep your fingers crossed please.

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Sunday, July 26, 2009

Whew that crazy weekend is over

Several times this weekend I wanted to take pictures of the food I was enjoying, but I was in fear that the Food Gazette would be watching and judging. Then I realized, who gives a crap what a Food Gazette thinks. Doc says I am in excellent health, (with the exception of this funky flu)...

So I didn't take the pictures, but I wanted to. I wanted to show the world (or the 3 or 4 that visit here) my awesome culinary experiences. This weekend had me basking in the delicious delights of a little understated Chef called Emeril. I was lucky enough to be invited to a shin dig that would awaken any taste bud. My favorite dish is Stone Crab, however, lobster cooked properly is a close second. So much for the cholesterol right? I eat in moderation, do not alert the media.

We had the most delicate mixture of Seafood and the lightest pastry ever to set place on my luscious lips. I savored each and every bite and didn't want to stop. I however, do practice safe eating. I will explain in another post on safe eating.

Love love love food and I love cooking. NOLA for dinner was a very special treat.

xoxo please hope that this flu leaves me by Wednesday when I take flight to the most foodtastic vacay in history. If not, I will at home with my chicken noodle soup cooked up a notch with hot sauce and horseradish...

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Friday, July 24, 2009

The girls were not feeling it at the dog park

I took Ruby & Riley to the dog park. They were not really impressed with the park. They have visited this park a few times and today, no fun. The other dogs that were there were too busy sniffing to play. My girls were trying to be social with everyone, but it seems that Ruby & Riley are a bit too Ivy league. Ruby was sporting her Penn State collar and Riley was in her U of P collar. Since I am an alum, I joined in with a matching shirt and workout pants.

Ruby made her way to a USF'er and they sniffed and each retreated to their respective corners of the play area. Riley a big Bobby Bowden fan, made her way over to the FSUer and they played a bit. Until her daddy decided it was time for extra curricular activity with the cocker's mom on the blanket. The FSUer was all in his face and left Riley standing alone. Riley is convinced it's because her Mom's SAT scores were intimidating.

So we loaded up and headed home. As I drove home, I thought about the exchange at the dog park and decided the girls still were my top priority and I would make sure they had their exercise. So I stopped at the Brandon Parkway and jogged the path.

When we arrived home, the girls licked and snuggled with me. While I showered, they lounged in their spots and when I came out of the shower sweet smelling, I got the approving nod that said, thanks Mom, you were great...

Who needs these big fancy dog parks. My girls and I love the time we spend together.

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Thursday, July 23, 2009

Working out before or after Ice Cream?

This has been the burning question all day. Should I eat ice cream before or after I work out? After a long deliberation, I decided I should eat ice cream after I work out because that will inspire me to work out in the morning to get rid of the ice cream from the night before. You know, this is all a science.

Tomorrow I am taking my girls Ruby & Riley on a special trip to a fancy dog park. It's where I originally wanted their first birthday party, but the city freaked when they found out I invited a Playboy Bunny to the party. As if.

This park is in the higher rent district and if I am lucky, I can see A-Rod's new house from the park. Oh yeah I live real close to that McManse. It's a bit of an eye sore from out on the water way. I took a few friends out on the StarShip for a luncheon and as we toured the area, I narrated because I found so many neat things to spot. The house that was on Extreme Home Make Over; a famous Attorney's home; A old Mob guys House; and A Rod's new summer palace. For the record it is not as nice as my Sea Castle at the Shore and does not have the view I have.

So back to the dog park. The girls and I will be having a dog-eat-dog luncheon before I pack up and head out again for the big excursion. I am seriously considering buying a Motor Home. That way my babies can ride with me.

So the verdict is... Ice Cream after working out.

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009

The big open internet

I have had several blogs. I enjoy writing and I enjoy interacting with people. At a time I was home sick back in '96 the Internet was the window to the world. I would be up all night sick as a dog and I could sign on and find a friend to pass the time until I could go back to sleep. Thankfully I recovered (it wasn't as serious as we thought)however, a bond was formed. I met several online folks. I did not do the dating online, but I met friends in large groups and still have some of the friendships today.

The big open Internet is a scary place. Often you get warm and fuzzy by venting your feelings or the happenings in your life. You might say one or two things off kilter and think oh it will pass. Then the trusty dusty truth of EXPOSURE happens. There is no turning back. Many don't realize that every foot print they make on the Internet, whether it be a review, a message board or a comment in the newspaper is out there for the world to see.

What has become of privacy is now BIG WIDE OPEN PRINT for all to see. It reminds me of a coworker I once had. I called her "click and snoop". We worked at a nice size law firm and I was the newest hire. This click and snooper was all about knowing your business and anyone elses. The day would start off often with...

Do you know that named partner X's house is worth 600k and that he has no mortgage. Or another good one was, I looked on line and I found out you inherited a big ole MC MANSION in New Jersey, you are PAYING for lunch. These were the daily's of her snooping. She actually felt obligated to "check" everyone out, and then spread the stories thusly. When partner X filed for divorce, she literally came into work 40 minutes early to tell each and everyone of us about it, she had to be first to know. In truth, I knew before she did but never felt the need to repeat it. Also, I hated to tell her that some of the information she found so to speak wasn't very accurate. In my case, I didn't inherit the house, I bought it...

What makes me write this ditty is this... we are all human, at least my DNA said I was. We make mistakes and we hope that one small glimmer of hope that if someone reads what we did or didn't do can help them. I am a firm believer in sharing information to help someone else. When that sharing is used against someone or they are judged, it really pisses me off. I hope that I may never share too much with you or make you judge me, but I am not promising anything. All I say is this... It's my life and it's now or never... I' ain't gonna live for ever. (thank you JBJ)

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Tuesday, July 21, 2009

I can't give up...

I am somewhat disappointed I can't do the half marathon. I am being sincere. I asked the trainer if I could do at least a 5k walk and he said he thought my foot would be fine. It wouldn't be any different than my last shopping trip at Mall of America or whatever it's called.

Tonight I did a little treadmill action and it was good. Back to the no carbs and I am going to drop 750 lbs if it kills me. Ok, not really that much weight. I asked the doctor if my weight had anything to do with my foot injury and he said no, it has to do with my shoe selections. He said I don't weight enough for my foot to be damaged. I guess wearing 5 inch stilettos really did a number on me. I think I hurt it trying to ice skate. It's nothing like roller skating, trust me...

So back on the partial marathon road. I will just be walking. (Fast like there is a sale at Lord & Taylors)

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So much to report to the 2 or 3 that read this.

My marathon goal is not going to happen. I hurt my foot and the doctor says no running, not even a slow job until it's heeled (haha healed even). Of course that gave me great reason to not watch what I eat and gain weight. HELLO that was not a smart move. So I am back to the work outs and the eating right after a short pause in the eat-it-all-in-one-sitting phase I was participating in.

Next on the agenda: my revamping my life. I am still searching for that perfect (any)job that sparks an interest and hopefully a new place to live. I know it's a jungle out there, but a girl has to do what a girl has to do.

The book deal is so confusing, I have an editor, a publisher and hopefully an audience, but I am scared, did I mention I am scared??? So much that I am thinking of moving to Alaska and hide out with the Mooses or is that Moose-i. Alaska isn't really my bag though, I hate the sunlight.

My trip around the country has been a blast. I have made short trips almost everywhere, and I still have places I am going. Stay tuned maybe a city near you.

Career change: Good bye Law, hello Candy maker? or was that Shoe maker, or could it be dog food maker, I am still up in the air, but would love to try my hand at something more relaxing...

Here is my dream life: Comfortable home, dog or two, maybe a cat, kids or not, nice man to wake up with, big family dinners celebrating everything, picnics at the drop of a hat, and plenty of laughter and love. Damn, I was right there until I got to the Love part...

Stay tuned...

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Monday, July 13, 2009

Today is a good day...

Today is going to be good, and the reason is.. because I said so. That's the way to think, right?

I am going jogging in a few minutes to see how my foot is doing. Wish me luck!

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Sunday, July 12, 2009

The weekend flew...

This past week and weekend has been a blur. After the final viewing of the Michael Jackson funeral and all the pundents commentary I was ready for something different. This summer has been a blast but there is work to do you know...

I indulge in a few guilty pleasures and some may shock you...Whale Wars on Friday nights is a show I can't stop watching. I think it's sad about the Whale killings, but on the other hand, I think the Sea Shepherd is a bit loo-loo. Only one paid person on the ship (The Captain) and the rest are made to shower only on certain days, not eat meat, and live in a bit of squalor. I know they signed up for it, but I just want to jump on that ship and cook hearty meals for them. A little meat for goodness sakes.

Speaking of cooking, another guilty pleasure is the next Food Network Star show. I am so opinionated that anyone around me can barely take it. Well... maybe one or two can take it. I love cooking and I love cooking shows. My favorite dish to make ... Appetizers. I love mini's of anything and love love love variety.

Those are about it on my guilty pleasures, well... there is bowling. I love that too. This week is going to be interesting. I am planning a huge road trip to NO WHERE... I will be photo documenting too... woohoo.

Thanks for the 2 that read this...

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Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Michael Jackson RIP

I was born in the sixty's and I am a child of a variety of music. We had all kinds of music at my house. Music was really important. At all our gatherings we would have music playing. Either by record (wow I am old) or by live performances. I listened to the Jackson 5s and Donny & Marie and the David Cassidy, and then the old stuff as I called it. DooWop, Beach music, Motown and country.

During the 80's the dance music was all about funk and Michael Jackson. I can still remember seeing the Male Review with one of the regulars dancing to Beat It.

I was not fond of Michael Jackson's kid fascination, but as an entertainer, he was brilliant. Even watching the snip-its of his new show, it showed he was current with the music and the dancing and the beats. I was really impressed. I am sad that the icon of pop music died. I am sad that he became a weirdo of his environment and that the fame and misfortune really did him in.

I hope his three children grow up normal.

RIP Michael Jackson

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Sunday, July 5, 2009

Whew I made it!

My duties as temporary care-giver are complete. I was able to see one of my baseball crushes win... yes I am a huge Jamie Moyer fan. Notwithstanding, I am also a big Tim Wakefield fan. I think it's because they are the only two in baseball I could crush on and not be Mrs. Robinson with. A cougar I am not. I prefer to be a little younger than my crushes. Call me crazy.

Anyway, I made it and made it to Philly with time to spare. Love love love the history that Philadelphia has. The food, the culture, the people, the historic feeling. When the flag was displayed on the field at Citizens Park, it was so interesting to remember that not far from the field is where Betsy Ross made our first flag. Very red/white and blue for me.

I am now heading to a town near you. I am doing a series of road trips to find some peace and quiet before heading back to Philly for a little more fun and arm pit pretzels. Oh and some sticky buns too.

Happy 233rd Birthday America!

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Thursday, July 2, 2009

I have to be the dumbest or the nicest.. the jury is still out

I have been known to help a few of my friends with kids. I have been the stand-in concession girl for the baseball/soccer games. On occasion, I have also taken care of a few friend's kids for them in a pinch. When I say in a pinch, I would think they would have had to go to every end of the universe before asking me.

This week has been difficult. I have been helping my friend with 3 glorious children. Her live-in housekeeper is ill and in the hospital with women issues. This did not bode well with my friend. You see, her and her husband have this annual regatta and there is no way they can miss it. OK, OK, it's only for 4 nights, I can do this...

Well... I was given a list of things to do, places to drive, activities to prohibit, and food. Each meal was planned out with the most organic ingredients I have ever seen. I was not allowed to take them out to dinner, I had to cook for them. That isn't a big deal except my culinary skills are not to the organic nature.

I reached out to www.thepioneerwoman.com for some help with tonight's ingredients, but I am sure she was overwhelmed with her own stuff, or sick of my recipe rescues request.

Tonight's dinner was suppose to be with organic like chicken parts. I tried, I really did, but I didn't feel comfortable with the time table that was given to me for cooking them. I felt they were not done and I didn't want to keep cooking them. So... off we went to my house for a little dinner surprise. I whipped up something non-organic. I made them Smokey Mountain Chicken and they loved it. I am prepared to tell my friend to kiss both my asses when she returns. Tomorrow night the kids are having Pizza because it's on their list. I am not getting them the veggie pizza, we are going to make our own, so whatever I have is what we will make.

Why do people do this?????

Signed not fit for babysitting organic groceries

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